Running relationships

In June (after reading 'Kings of the Road – how Frank Shorter, Bill Rodgers, and Alberto Salazar made running go boom') I suggested to a friend of mine about sharing his story.

He replied, indicating that he thought he didn't really have a story to tell or an audience.

Of course, I disagreed - he's been around running (and writing) for 50-odd years.

I thought long and hard about his reply, and mine. I offered this... 

Running is about relationships: 

• the relationship between a runner and others: those around, beside, alongside and occasionally against him or her - racers, runners, contemplators, gonners, and non-runners

• the relationship between a runner and Mother Nature: amongst hills, rain, humidity, wind, sand, snow, mud, grass, cold and heat, and amongst plants, bugs and furry critters, the runner can be any or all of explorer, thespian, wanderer, apprentice, artisan, master, sage and oracle - having eyes for and of the future.

• the relationship  amongst self: muscle, mind, mettle, and soul and spirit

• the relationship between runner and person: himself, pride, ego and super ego

•  the relationship between science and art: physics, physiology and psychology, and mystery, marvel and magic

• the relationship between sharing and shared

• the relationship between goals, determination, work and pride, sacrifice and dedication; even, for some, obbsession and addiction

• the relationship between energy, effort and economy

• the relationship between persistence, patience and power 

• the relationship between going out and about and starting and finishing in the same spot – going somewhere, everywhere, yet nowhere 

• the relationship between a runner's deep history, his now, and a possible future - a future dreamt, and a future possible 

• the relationship between success and failure: slipping, falling and getting up and going again - and again

• the relationship between winning and losing, and realising that they're not about first and last place - but, rather, the power of persistence and patience

• and, ultimately, their relationship with the toughest race of all – the race against oneself. Other competitors, times and places matter not in the finish. The race against, and ultimately for oneself is the race we all strive to win. Only through trusting oneself to test one's limits and having the courage to succeed can we all be winners.

Given your own running success, the journey you shared as running grew through the 60s, 70s and 80s, and the relationships you have forged and formed directly with and through running, and through your writings, you do have a story to tell.

The relationship(s) all runners have with running and what it offers, promises and provides is a story you can tell and, in many ways, is everyone's story. 

If you were to tell your story of running what would it be?